The Heartwarming Psychology of Pet Nicknames

From “Poopsie” to “Fashion Potato,” why we love silly pet names for our pets

Rae Paoletta
Published in
4 min readDec 10, 2019

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Dave, aka Dr. David Catz and Davely Cakes. Photo: Andrea_A75

Every pet owner is fluent in the gibberish they speak with their fur children; the gobbledygook of praise understood by a select few animals and confused human friends.

It’s not just the toxoplasmosa gondii cats have probably lodged in our brains, or the small surge of serotonin released when we pet a dog — there’s a psychological explanation for how our pets’ names go from “Doc” to “The Illustrious Captain Fatty.

What’s in a pet’s pet name?

Zadie, aka Grand Fuzz Railroad. Photo: IBatheDaily

A lot, apparently.

Research confirms what we all anecdotally know to be true; nicknames are associated with stronger relationships. We award nicknames to the people (and pets) in our lives we feel a special bond with.

Suzanne Degges-White, a counselor and professor at Northern Illinois University, has extensively studied friendships and familial relationships. She says “couplespeak”—inside jokes and nicknames used by people in love—develop over time in happy partnerships.

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Rae Paoletta
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Written by Rae Paoletta

content strategist and writer; friend to bodega cats

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